Red Flags Of Toxic D Types
discerning whether they are who they say they are. In your journey finding the ideal Dom or Domme you will discover patterns of inauthentic behavior and patterns of authenticity in who they say they are.
In today’s world it's far more common to meet online than it is to meet in person because of this, people can hide behind a false image. The internet is also reampent
With predators who will use any guise to get what they desire. By predator, I mean anyone who is willing to use and manipulate someone covertly
In order to get their way.
Predators and inexperienced kinksters are 2 different creature
The predator
seeks you out like prey, they appear as you desire to see them. They are willing to say or do anything to get what they want and that includes using your kinks, limits, and weaknesses against you.
They use Pressure as a manipulative tactic to get their way.
You may find yourself being pressured to do something Whether that be to meet .. Send a picture.. Call them. Get on Cam
Or to perform an act you’ve already stated you're not interested in or is a hard limit Pressure is not the way of a Dominante. A safe person can take NO for an Answer out of respect for your boundaries or wishes.
The Predator uses BDSM to masquerade as the ideal dominant to attract willing victims.
VS
The Fake Dominant is a kinky person willing to say or do anything to get laid
They will switch between roles, to suit the night. They aren’t interested in you as a submissive they are interested in climaxing. They will use a horrific such as submissive or slave and demand you do as they say, if you want to be a real submissive. Fake Male Dom’s make sexual Demands. Fake Female Doms Make Money Demands within the first 5 minutes of communicating.
Fake Dominants focus on sexual fulfillment, Real Dominants focus on getting to know you as a person and as a submissive. There’s no pressure, there’s no rush. They respect your time, they respect your limits, they take their time getting to know you. In their presence you feel at ease, safe and free to speak your mind and express yourself.
Remember
BDSM isn’t about possession or enslavement it's about the freedom Found in the illusion of possession seen in the beautiful exchange of power Practiced In a safe, sane and consensual way.
When we meet the person we are meant to be with it FEELS like a HOMECOMING, instead of a battlefield.
Mmhmm let that resonate.
Mistress Gomorahh
