Let’s Talk About Femdoms!

Nov 17

Let’s talk about Female Domination in BDSM

Hello and welcome to the playground where we talk about all things bdsm and today we will be talking about female domination in bdsm

Everyday men ask how to meet a female Dom that’s not a scammer, So let’s talk about it. Starting with what is the difference between a Femdom, Financial Dom and Dominatrix domme or pro dom?

Let's start with the basics, the word Femdom stands for Female Dom. it's as straightforward as you get. Femdom’s are female practicing Doms in the lifestyle of BDSM. Femdoms are also called Domme’s is another endearing word for femdom

What is a Professional Dominant?

A Professional Dominant as anyone who gets paid in exchange for services related to fetishes and kinks.. Sex is often not practiced with pofessional Dominants but may be practiced by a sex worker who engages in Domination and submission

So What is a dominatrix

A Dominatrix is a pro dom who may or may not participate in the Kink of financial domination

Dominatrix’s are offering a BDSM experience in a safe dungeon setting where you pay for a service that is communicated first. Services can include, Bondage, Domination and Submission Roleplay, and Erotic Sado-masochism just to name a few

What is a Financial Femdom

A Financial Femdom is a niche of Pro domination meaning she receives money in exchange for fulfilling his fantasy of being demanded to pay her in a way that he has communicated to her prior to the scene. Financial Domination is based in the Humiliation kink. I will be posting a video about that soon for those interested be sure to like and subscribe now to be noticed when it airs

Its important to know that Professional Doms don’t act without your consent … Pro’s are offering a service catering to your experience based on your kinks and desires

That’s why it's important to find a Pro Femdom who’s kinks line up with your own. so that you have a great time together! Do not expect a full relationship with a Pro Dom.. The beauty of Service is, there are no strings attached, when money is exchanged.

Now let's talk about Lifestyle Femdoms vs Kinky Femdoms

First, all femdoms are kinky. The only difference is a Lifestyle Femdom desires to practice power exchange as a dominant with their submissive inside and outside of the bedroom often on a daily basis, We call this 24/7 Power Exchange through Domination and Submission also known as D/S an umbrella term for many dynamics practicing power exchange

Whereas other Kinky Femdoms, also known as Kinksters only want to Roleplay the Mistress and slave dynamic inside the bedroom, meaning it's strictly about sex and roleplay in the bedroom. This is the only difference between a Kinkster and Lifestyler no matter the gender. It's important to know whose who when seeking a partner

Another way to look at it for our Femdom Types listening A submissive practices inside and outside the bedroom a Kinkster only wants to submit in the bedroom

Now let’s talk about online scammers, we see them daily in the online community

All of these scammers follow the same copy and paste protocol There’s No conversation, No questions answered.. Just a demand for money or gift cards

Most of them aren’t women or actual human beings.. Instead they are bots or men posing as women to get in your pocket. They have become a parasite in the online community so beware of them in online groups

Tips For those thinking of Dating a femdom

Remember to just treat her like a regular woman, just as she should treat you like a regular person. until you have both expressed permission to act otherwise.

Remember the first rule of BDSM is to practice safely, sanely and consensually .. If a person is disregarding your safety, and consent they aren’t practicing BDSM in a sane manner… Sane practice also refers to drug free play to prevent unwanted harm

Below is a link to a dating checklist you can signup for to download to your phone to have on hand for dating within the BDSM community.

So now that you know the different types of femdoms and you have the checklist of green and red flags for dating dominants and submissive types

I can hear you asking, so where do I find them!! Let’s chat about that in the next Blog! Until then, may all your kinky dreams come true!